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"A household residing in North London wants to find an remarkable and qualified instructor to guide their youngest child on his first steps to becoming an British gentleman."

Upon seeing this listing, you might easily overlook the phrase "initial stages" as just a turn of phrase.

However, it may be the crucial part of this unique position posting, as it attempts to recruit a tutor for a infant.

Numerous of submissions have now been submitted since the unnamed family advertised their search for the £180k-a-year tutor, who must be "someone very special".

During the past few weeks, the advert has received attention throughout the press, with many asking why?

Forward-Thinking Method

Adam Caller, head and founder of a global tutoring firm, which is helping the family in their quest, explained that notwithstanding initial doubt, he viewed the idea "visionary", and "innovative".

When he spoke with the family, he mentioned they appreciated the unusual nature of their requirement, and how young their son is.

But, they stated that they "didn't want to wait any longer" to hire a tutor, as they had postponed until their older child was five, and by that stage "cultural bias had already set in".

But what did the family refer to by "cultural predisposition"?

It's "everything", Adam answered. "The way you eat, the way you speak".

He explained the elder child had absorbed "very nuanced, non-verbal cues" from the family, and had taken on their cultural norms. The family explained to him they wished to avoid this pattern to repeat itself with their new baby.

The plan: To engage a English tutor, who must speak with Received Pronunciation, to guide the baby right from the beginning.

Osmotic Learning

"A great deal of the education at the start here is somewhat acquired indirectly," said the CEO.

It's through this natural absorption that the family are aiming the child will pick up the UK customs they wish to instil.

He explained the tutor had to be somebody who went to "the appropriate educational institutions – the same kinds of schools as the family aspire to send their son to".

"The tutor simply needs to be the appropriate candidate, they'll be doing things they may not realize they're doing, just naturally," he commented.

Expense Not a Factor

The family explained to the expert the chosen tutor should preferably also have familiarity of or passion in equestrian activities, winter sports, artistic pursuits and music so as to influence the child in a diverse set of interests.

Additionally though, he stated the family hoped the tutor to sign up the child on a range of courses so the child would be "equestrian training and starting an instrument by the time they are approximately three years old".

In the family's view, helping their son grow into a "British gentleman" will lead to achievement and create opportunities.

"Taking into account the pros and cons of that, because it's undoubtedly a class statement," he notes.

Yet, notwithstanding all this instruction in "UK identity", could the child adopt what is termed cultural bias from the multicultural family he resides with anyway?

"Yes", answered he. "They realize this may not work, but they've merely embraced the attitude of, 'we should try and we'll proceed as quickly as we can', because the expense of it is not a concern," he explained.

Impractical

Several in the tutoring industry who have similar reservations.

Another CEO, head and founder of a tutoring service, who also offer individual instructors, commented that "the process of becoming bicultural, or in fact, discovering oneself, is something that must be experienced personally, not designed."

Peter wrote that he had moved from China to the UK at the period of seven, and had been brought up experiencing and living dual heritages. He continued to learn at Cambridge University.

"The idea that a single person can serve as a embodiment of Britishness, someone who can possibly impart the attributes of a English gentleman upon a infant child, strikes me as optimistic and unrealistic," he commented.

"From my perspective, having a distinctly English tutor from infancy will not necessarily achieve the result they hope for.

"I never had such a figure, and nevertheless I have been privileged enough to live several of the situations they aspire for their son."

He stated: "The truth is, cultural identity should not be imposed from the outside influences; it must be selected, and it must originate internally."

Purchasing UK Culture

Certainly, UK identity is something the CEO thinks can be educated – and sold.

"I believe the situation that the global community regards us in this light is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating